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We have all had talks where the subject involving infidelity is mentioned and fairly recently I was in this type of discussion with a close friend who was in fact sharing with me that her hubby had been utilising her mastercard to purchase talks with an adult company and the idea he would use her cash to purchase intimacy seemed to be the reason why she was so disappointed “At least these were economical phone sex conversations” she eventually mentioned regarding those phonesex chats he had been experiencing without her knowledge, as though he ought to be thanked for his wisdom for picking affordable phone sex chats rather than more costly fantasy phone lines! I asked if the price of his “behavior ” was the major reason for being annoyed, all things considered, if my own man had been the one enjoying live one-to-one intimate conversations with other females, I suspect I would have become raving mad about the whole thing!

“You know” she finally asserted … “Not necessarily. Maybe initially I guess I was, I mean he was getting in touch with various other women to fulfill needs that I am obviously not fulfilling myself, yet I realized that there was really no harm done. Sure, he was being intimate with other individuals, but these types of services only deal with fantasies, topics that are imaginative to say the least, and not likely to ever be realized in real life, so I didn’t see it as a major problem, he was talking to females he didn’t know, would never hook up with in real life and who were only there to play a role in his fantasies.

“Not really, no. Surprisingly I wasn’t angry with him! The fact that he used my credit card as payment for these phone services was more annoying to me. Some may argue that anytime someone has any type of intimacy with another person, whether it be in person, as in real life, or virtual as in this case, then it is a form of cheating. But I didn’t see it that way. If you take into consideration the “trouble” we cause sometimes and the amount of banter we get up to with people we meet when we go on our ladies night, you know, the innuendos, and the gentle flirting, then I don’t what he did was any worse! In answer to your question, no I cannot say that I was angry!”

I was really intrigued by her reaction, or lack thereof. This was my friend. My dear childhood friend. The person who covered for me when I sneaked out one day to go out on a date with a guy my parents didn’t approve of. The girl who had her fist kiss on prom day. And there she was being so open minded. She actually didn’t see anything wrong. More than that, she saw his “indiscretions” for what they really were. Meaningless simply because of the anonymous nature of the women he had been intimate with. “He is calling fantasy lines” she added and she was right.

Had I not caught my own husband watching porn on several occasions, without me? “Bob (my husband) watches porn and I’ve caught him many times”! I had to admit. “I can understand your point of view though since when that happen, I was angry with him, not because he was watching porn, but because he was doing it without me”!

And just as I was going to develop my chain of thoughts further, my friend cut me off:

“As I was dealing with the fact that it was my credit card that he had used to pay for these adult phone calls, it dawned on me that I might have enjoyed it myself. Why not? We’ve always had a lot of fun in the bedroom, if you know what I mean, so why shouldn’t I join in the fun!”

That “floored me”! Literally knocked me off my seat! To think that this was the same girl who “saved” herself for her husband, who had a first French kiss when she was nearly 18. And this was the sweet, innocent woman who was telling me that was entertaining the idea of a threesome, even if it was to take place by way of mobile love!

“So… What transpired? Did you really….?” I eventually asked her.

“Yes…” She said. “And before you ask, yes, it was a lot of fun!”

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