Bored With Your Sex Life? Try Role Playing

Sexuality is a very complex part of human behavior. It’s principle function is obviously for reproductive reason but there is more to sex than the need to copulate in order to ensure one’s legacy in this world.  Talking about sexuality in broader terms, is it not surprising that males need to have an orgasm (ejaculate) in order to procreate, whilst women don’t?  Perhaps this is one of the reasons why women can have multiple orgasms!  But that is obviously a different conversation all together!

When it comes to marriages, therefore, this sexual component plays a definite role, providing the glue that binds couples together. Unless you’re two friends living together, friends without benefits of course… But in most cases, erotic desire between two spouses is the necessary part of an effective loving relationship. And it goes even beyond that!  Lack (or bad) sex can literally make or break a marriage. When present, sex can be seen as the foundation of true joy and happiness, but without it, it can also trigger separations as well as heart aches. It is no important where you are in life, chances are that eventually, your intimate relationship will ofttimes be regressed to the back of your list of concerns. It is a normal course of events in most people lives.  Kids, daily life, stuff… frequently seem to get in the way of love and once boredom rears its ugly head, a lack of activity as far as love-making is concerned, SEX, may very well throw challenges that often times are typically hard to overcome. In order to trump these kinds of difficulties, husbands and wives oftentimes seek to rekindle the excitement that was there when they were younger.

Couples can bring the “sexy” back into their bedroom in any number of ways. Like role playing for example, which is both healthy and intensely rewarding.

Many couples find it difficult to share with one another what “secretly” excites them for fear of drawing criticism or worse.  It is therefore vitally important to remind ourselves that imagination (fantasy) is part and parcel of our sexual make up, making it important that both spouses recognize that role play is part and parcel of foreplay as opposed to a an actual “real life” realization of said fantasy. To put it differently, one may well be aroused by something, enough to want to be talking about it with a loved one, but at the same time recognize that role play is all a couple needs in order to explore any fantasy, however kinky it might be.

Roleplaying scenarios can include:

  • Student – Instructor
  • Slave – Master

So, can you just jump into roleplaying and are there any kind of rules or maybe worries we must think about ahead of time?

The response to the very first concern is of course without a doubt! Do speak about this with your companion, become comfortable with each other as you begin the process of exploring your fantasies, and as you proceed, you will learn to be more at ease with what you can say to each other, and more importantly how you can say it in order to produce a stimulating environment.

The solution to the second part of the above question is based upon the nature of the actual fantasy you wish to discover! Power play scenarios for example may necessitate a “safe signal” you can use if a red line is being crossed.

There isn’t a right or wrong method to have fun with role play. You will figure out this for yourself as you begin to be a little more experienced in the different types of cases you would like to re-enact.

A very good way to enjoy role play is through phone sex which couples use with one another. Some even reach out to paid up services because of the experience the ladies (and men) at the other end of the telephone can bring.

There are many services available out there offering Cheap Phone Sex. So next time you are away from each other, whether you pay for it or not, pick the phone and get role playing! It’s a fantastic method to bring spice back to your intimate relationship. Relax, take note of what your companion shares with you, understand… have fun with!

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